Interviewing actress Monique Bartnik

1-. How was your childhood?

During my childhood, I experienced many ups and downs. I moved frequently because my father served in the military, and he is now retired. As a result, I spent part of my childhood in Virginia Beach, where I also attended school. This experience helped me become fluent in English, which I continue to speak with ease today. I am also the oldest of four siblings, and growing up with them was an enjoyable experience. However, I left home at a young age and had to become more or less independent early on.

2. - From what age did you decide to be an actress and how did you know you had the skills to go on TV?

"I can't quite recall the exact age when I decided to become an actress, but I do remember that as a child, I always chose theater as an elective at school. Interestingly, and probably something many wouldn’t expect, I used to sing opera as a child and even took private singing lessons. To answer your question, as I grew older, I realized I wanted to pursue something that truly brought me joy. I didn’t want to dread going to work every day; I wanted to find fulfillment in what I do. That's when the idea of becoming an actress came to mind. I knew it would be a tough journey, but that didn’t deter me. My first step was to apply for casting calls for German afternoon TV programs. Back then, I had no idea that this might not be viewed favorably by some serious casting directors in Germany, but my main goal was to gain experience. To my surprise, I was booked quite frequently. After that, I decided to pursue an acting degree. Building connections in film and television wasn’t easy, but today, I’m happy to say that I’ve managed to establish a strong network."

3. - Did your parents support you in the decision you made to be an actress?

"As I mentioned in the first question, I moved out of my parents' home at a fairly young age and was, in many ways, on my own. However, I should note that my father did help me finance my studies at that time and even paid for private acting lessons beforehand. My mother, on the other hand, always told me that as long as I was happy and doing well, that was what mattered most. So, I can confidently say that they both supported me in making those decisions. Today, as an adult, I take full responsibility for determining what is best for me and continue to make decisions that align with my personal and professional goals."

4. - What was your first appearance on the screens?

"It was definitely on German television. Honestly, I can't recall exactly what it was, as I've been involved in so many projects over the years. The truth is, I would actually like to erase what I did on German TV back then from my memory, as it was mostly afternoon programming. I’ve probably repressed it, and that's probably why I can’t remember it anymore. It may sound strange, but it’s really the truth. However, I want to clarify that when I say 'afternoon programming,' I do not mean anything of a pornographic nature. It was still acting, but more scripted content. I feel it’s important to mention that to avoid any misunderstanding. Today, I’ve distanced myself from that type of work a long time ago. My first feature film, however, was in Olaf Ittenbach's Levizia."

5. - What was the role you liked the most?

"That's a great question. Let me think for a moment. There have been several roles I’ve enjoyed, each with its own unique appeal. However, I would say the role I liked the most was portraying Kyle in the RTL2 TV show All About Love. My character was a blogger who had a dangerous stalker. The storyline took a dark turn when he kidnapped her, and she woke up tied to an altar. Kyle's psychotic fan had discovered that she was in a relationship, and in his twisted mind, he decided that if he couldn't have her, no one could. The altar scene was intense—there were photos of Kyle with pushpins and knives stabbed through them, surrounded by candles. It was a bizarre and disturbing situation, and it really pushed me to stay in character. At times, I wanted to laugh because of how absurd the situation was, but I was proud of how it turned out when it aired. It remains a memorable experience for me."

6.- What do you think led you to fame?

"That's a funny question! I wouldn't consider myself famous. I'm still on my journey in the industry, and I'm grateful for the opportunities I've had so far. Fame isn't something I focus on; for me, it's more about the work and the passion I have for acting. I'm still learning and growing, and I look forward to the future."

7-. What types of characters would you like to interpret?

"Those who know me personally are aware that my dream role has always been to play a flight attendant or a vampire. I can’t quite explain why, but those characters have always intrigued me. However, I’m truly open to all kinds of roles. In today’s industry, it’s a blessing to even be considered for a part, so I’m really open to exploring any character that comes my way."

8-. What actresses and actors do you feel comfortable working with?

"I’ve had the pleasure of working with many talented and professional actors and actresses. However, if you're asking about more well-known figures, I’d say that working with Eric Roberts was a truly enjoyable experience. He is incredibly grounded and a very warm person. I admire individuals who, despite their immense success, remain humble and down-to-earth. Nothing turns me off more than people who think they’re better than others, especially when, in the end, we all end up the same way. It's important to stay grounded and remember our shared humanity."

9-. In what other genres of art would you like to participate? (Works of theater, music,among others)

"That’s a fantastic question. I’m also very interested in the work behind the camera, which is why I decided to also become a producer. In the past, I found myself unintentionally taking on producer-like tasks without even realizing that’s what a producer does. I’ve always been drawn to the idea of being involved from the very beginning of a project, planning it out, and making decisions collaboratively with the team. It’s a role that allows me to be hands-on and creatively engaged in the entire process."

10.- Do you have any anecdotes that have marked you in your life and as a person?

"The term 'anecdote' actually comes from the Greek word anékdoton, which translates to 'not published' or 'not revealed.' As for sharing any anecdotes, I think I’ve probably embarrassed myself enough in life already, so I really don’t need to share any here. However, one thing my friends and those who know me well can say is that with me, it’s never boring. The motto is: never fear embarrassment. As an actor, you can’t afford to be embarrassed either—otherwise, your performance won’t be authentic."

11.- What has been your greatest achievement?

One of the greatest achievements in my life has been carving my own path and living in alignment with my values. Over time, I’ve learned to distance myself from individuals who do not contribute positively to my well-being and stopped chasing after those who fail to recognize my worth. I’ve become more selective about who I allow into my life, especially those who are deceitful or only present when they need something. Setting clear boundaries and learning to say "no" has been a significant milestone for me, as many still struggle with this.

Professionally, although it hasn’t received widespread recognition yet, one of my proudest accomplishments is the project The Red Carpet, which addresses power abuse in the entertainment industry. Despite a modest budget, we aimed to bring attention to this issue, which, unfortunately, has become an ongoing problem within the industry. This project remains personally significant to me, and I’m hopeful its influence will grow in the future.

However, I am fully aware that I would not have achieved any of this without the incredible people in my life. I was never alone on my journey. Although I had to become independent at a young age, I’ve always had people around me who supported me, and continue to do so. These people are my family, and I love them dearly.

12.- What projects will you make next and which ones do you have in mind?

I’m currently working on several projects, one of which is submitting The Red Carpet to as many film festivals as possible. As I mentioned earlier, I’m also active as a producer, which means I’m involved in numerous discussions and meetings regarding film financing. There is a lot going on, though, as always, I’m unable to share too much at this point. However, when the time comes, you’ll definitely hear about it.

As for the most commercially promising project, I can reveal that it will be The Madonna in a Fur Coat, based on the novel by Sabahattin Ali. This will be a book-to-film adaptation, with some creative modifications, directed by Bay Okan. I was actually surprised that this book hasn’t been adapted into a film yet. There were previous attempts, but they didn’t succeed. My producer partners and I are now taking on the challenge to bring this incredible story to life.

13.- Would you like to make a movie in Spain?

If the opportunity arises, then why not? I believe in making the most of any chance that presents itself, as long as it aligns with my goals and values. Being open to new opportunities is essential for growth and progress.

14.- you like spanish cinema?

Yes, actually. The film The Skin I Live In, which I believe is from Spain, left a strong impression on me. It has a captivating storyline and is incredibly entertaining. I really enjoyed it. Thank you again for the opportunity to take part in this interview. It’s been a pleasure speaking with you.